so i wish that people could just be more direct. why are there all these games and supposed politenesses about sex? i wish a guy could just like call me up and be like hey, i want to fuck. do you want to fuck? and i could be like nope not tonight. or yes id like some fucking, thank you. please bring your hard penis over here and i will put it someplace nice. why is this so difficult? why do people feel the need to tiptoe around these things instead of just getting to the point?